Tuesday, October 12, 2010

REMEMBERING

Remembering:
Just the other day I was reminded of what a community is and how one remembers it. 

My father built the house I was born in. It was located in  in Newtonville, a section of Newton and it is close to several other cities namely, Watertown and Waltham. And, as a teen and young adult I lived in Weston located just on the outskirts of Waltham.

So what was so wonderful about Newton you may think. It isn’t like it's a city. But, it is a city, the "City of Newton." But, you of course mean the City of Boston and all its little cities around it.  

Some of the cities around Boston, East Boston, Haverhill, Leominster, Lowell, Cambridge, Newton, and Waltham are all immigrant cities.  These cities housed mills where French Canadians came to work long before the Irish or the Italian influx.  The French Canadians came down to work in these mills mostly in the winter after their crops had been harvested. 

How do I know this you wonder? I have done my homework.  I belong to a genealogy society where we have traced our ancestors back to the 1740 and earlier to the Acadians of Annapolis Valley, NS and the original Quebec settlers. We have many documents of these travels and travelers. And, in the genealogy group I met many people from Newton, Waltham, Weston, and we, of course, shared stories about growing up in these towns.

When I grew up in the 40s, 50s and 60s it wasn’t much different than the description given by a classmate.  We had our church festivals, Italian-Irish Catholic, parades three or four times a year, Greek and Armenian Tavernas in Watertown, and holiday parades, Easter, Forth of July, Thanksgiving and Christmas, in Waltham.  We had two movie houses close buy, one in Watertown and one in Newton Corner where we went to see the latest films on rainy days. (Continued)


SUMMER DAYS

Summer Days
You ask, what about the summer ?  When we were younger there was the Carr School on Nevada Street.  This had a large playground with tall swings, ball fields and a recessed tennis court. If we weren’t on the swings, playing baseball, or playing tennis we were learning how to embroider, make trays out of wood for our mothers or make countless lariats and potholders.  We were busy, very busy.  

And, if that was not enough we could walk down California Street to Watertown Square and take the trolley in to Boston, Jamaica Plane, Hyde Park, Cambridge, Revere, or any other place the trolley could go. 

Some of the best trips are the ones my mother took us on, to the theater for children in Boston.  At the Shubert Theater we saw such plays as Rumplestilskin,  Snow White, Cinderella and more that I can’t remember right now.  We went in each month to see a different play.  I believe I got my love of theater at that time.

I often visited my Godmother and her sister in such cities as Cambridge, Hyde Park, or Jamaica Plane, where they lived at different times.  Those towns were more sedate than they are now.  When visiting we would go to the Franklin Park Zoo or the Arboretum or to the doll museum at the end of her street, not to mention all the other museums in the area, weddings, funerals and many trips to her friend and relative's houses.  And, my Godmother is the person who introduced me to Chinese, Hungarian, Jewish, Russian and German foods. I love all ethnic foods to this day.

Other activities we enjoyed were ballet and piano lessons in Newton Center, Tap and gymnastic lessons in Waltham.  When I became old enough to go by myself,  I walked to Weston where there was horse back riding or took the buss to Wall-x Roller-skating Rink in Waltham. I never felt deprived, or without something to do. Life seemed to go fast. 

From the time I was seven we spent the summers in Humarock, a little seaside village overlapping sections of Marshfield and Scituate.  Here is where we had lazy summer days, swimming, laying on the beach for hours, boating and where I made live long friends. Humarock is 50 miles form Newton and a little more from Weston. My father built the cottage in 1947.  And, I now live in the much altered cottage.

Most of us went to one of the Catholic schools in the neighborhood.  There was the French Church, St John the Evangelist and their school and the Irish Church, Our Lady’s Help of Christians, now known only as Our lady’s and their school.  I went to Our Lady’s because my mother’s best friend was a sister there. 

I always wanted to go to the French school but that was not to be. I loved going to the French Church with my father on Sundays. But, he was the better cook in the family and we had to decide if Dad was going to cook and have a wonderful meal or go to High Mass with him, it was a hard decision to make.

Thou the French community was first to live in the Nonantum area but during WWI  & WWII there was a large influx of Italian immigrants.  They settled in the section of Nonantum known as the “LAKE.” Many of my friends were Italians and we all went to Our Lady’s elementary school. 

On my way to and from school there was a wonderful Italian bakery that we had to walk by.  Oh! Such a delicious aroma of bread came wafting to our nostrils tempting us to linger.  And, there was a lovely little library on the corner of Adams and Watertown Streets that I often frequented. The librarian was a nice lady who would find books, she knew I would like, on geology or science and put them away for me. There was a park but much too small to have a dinner or a picnic in. I would say it was more of a memorial park.  That is where we had our pictures taken on special occasions as First Communion, Confirmation, Easter or Thanksgiving.  The park was next to the Fire Station still in operation today. 

Then there was always my Grandma’s house just down the road on Capitol Street.  It’s a wonder I ever got home on time for supper.  But, supper was always ready at 5 o’clock as my Mom, a housewife, prided herself on making a good home for her family had supper waiting for us. In those days it was common for women to stay home to look after the home and family. To work outside the home was frowned upon. (continued)

A MOVE TO WESTON

A Move to Weston
When I was almost fourteen years old we moved to Weston.  Being a teen is a difficult time in one’s life and I was no different. It was also difficult fitting into a new school system but I soon found friends in my neighborhood that I was compatible with and we shared homework or babysitting jobs.

I got my first real job working at Foot’s General store just around the block from our house.  I served ice cream. Guess you could have called me a “Soda Jerk.” What it taught me was responsibility and the art of making sundaes. Another job was being a Mother’s Helper for a Jewish couple. They had three boys and I became part of their Jewish family.  I have many happy memories of them. 

As for activities there was tennis, horse back riding, going to Howard Johnson’s after the monthly dances, art lessons, apple picking, football games and going to Moody Street to shop for clothes. Of course we always had access to Boston for the train stopped down the road from our house. We could hear the freight trains at 4 o’clock every morning as they blew their melancholy whistle echoing in our valley before crossing the roads.

In high school I found a group of friends who loved Jazz as much as I did.  How many people can say that every Wednesday afternoon they went to Boston’s Copley Square Hotel’s Storyville and listened to the jazz artists who were traveling through the area. 

Some of the artists we were fortunate to see were, Johnny Mathis, when he was nineteen, big bands like, Louie Armstrong, Bobby Hackett, Dizzy Gillespie, Glenn Miller Memorial band, Benny Goodman Memorial Band, Ella Fitzgerald, Lena Horn, Jean Krupa,, Miles Davis, Charlie Parker, Stan Getz, Gerry Mulligan, Lee Konitz and Billie Holiday, Duke Ellington, Dave Brubeck, Nat King Cole, John Coltrane, Stan Kenton, Lionel Hampton, Sarah Vaughn, Stan Kenton, Chet Baker, Louie Belton, Bert Barrack. And so many more I can’t remember them all.

Now when I look back on it all, I don’t think I would have wanted to live anywhere else, for I had the best of both worlds… Newton was close to the trolleys and the buses went everywhere and Weston is only 12 miles from Boston and had a train that went directly to North Station. We had city activities and country living.

Ah! Ya can’t beat that…
Night, night, you all out there, sleep tight, don’t let the bedbugs bite,

Sleepy Sally Sandman

Sunday, October 10, 2010

BULLYING A CAPTURED AUDENCE

Follow-up article: Bulling has many forms.  The following are examples of bulling not often associated as bulling but it is non-the-less.
News articles that deal with bulling or outing gays & forced religion & rules on captured audiences.

His son picketed by zealot Baptist group wasn’t gay but military: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2010/03/29/father-of-dead-marine-ord_n_517614.html?ref=fb&src=sp

Lieutenant Choi discharged from Army: http://www.newsweek.com/blogs/the-gaggle/2010/07/22/exclusive-dadt-protestor-lt-choi-is-officially-discharged-from-army.html  

House passed the DATA but held up until survey is report is out: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2010/05/27/senate-armed-services-com_n_592782.html?ref=fb&src=sp#sb=980502,b=facebook

Ending DADT will undermine religious liberty: http://www.facebook.com/l.php?u=http%3A%2F%2Freligion.blogs.cnn.com%2F2010%2F06%2F01%2Fmy-take-ending-dont-ask-dont-tell-would-undermine-religious-liberty%2F&h=3fab6

Glenn Beck against DATA repeal:http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2010/09/17/ken-buck-homogeneous-military-dadt_n_721804.html?ref=fb&src=sp

Elderly gay couple separated and everything they owned auctioned off: http://www.bilerico.com/2010/04/sonoma_county_ca_separates_elderly_gay_couple_and.php  

Huckabee likens gay marriage to incest: http://search.yahoo.com/404handler?src=news&fr=404_news&ref=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fl.php%3Fu%3Dhttp%253A%252F%252Fnews.yahoo.com%252Fs%252Fap%252F20100413%252Fap_on_el_pr%252Fus_huckabee_gay_marriage%26amp%3Bh%3D3fab6&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnews.yahoo.com%2Fs%2Fap%2F20100413%2Fap_on_el_pr%2Fus_huckabee_gay_marriage

DADT SURVEY a Gay Questioner: http://voices.washingtonpost.com/federal-eye/2010/07/a_pentagon_survey_sent_this.html

NYC: Gang members torture Gay police recruit:  http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-503544_162-20003698-503544.html

Gay couple found guilty and sentenced to 14 years in prison: http://www.ksby.com/news/malawi-gay-couple-found-guilty/

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Bulling and captured audiences.

References to New Testament passages imbedded in US rifle scopes: http://www.usatoday.com/news/military/2010-01-19-Military-weapons_N.htm

Military forces soldiers to go to Christian worship: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/chris-rodda/us-soldiers-punished-for-_b_687051.html?ref=fb&src=sp

Jail prohibits any reading material except the Bible: http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2010/10/06/AR2010100604933.html?hpid=sec-religion

WHICH ONE IS GAY?


Please go to this URL and see his cartoon... it is profoundly poignant... http://blogs.trb.com/news/opinion/chanlowe/blog/2009/04/military_gays_gay.html



About the author
Chan LoweCHAN LOWE has been the Sun Sentinel’s first and only editorial cartoonist for the past twenty-six years. Before that, he worked as cartoonist and writer for the Oklahoma City Times and the Shawnee (OK) News-Star.

BULLYING HAS MANY FORMS

Bulling Follow-up:
The following are examples of bulling not often associated as bulling but it is non-the-less.

News articles that deal with bulling or outing gays & forced religion & rules on captured audiences.

His son picketed by zealot Baptist group. His son wasn’t gay but military: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2010/03/29/father-of-dead-marine-ord_n_517614.html?ref=fb&src=sp

Lieutenant Choi discharged from Army: http://www.newsweek.com/blogs/the-gaggle/2010/07/22/exclusive-dadt-protestor-lt-choi-is-officially-discharged-from-army.html  

House passed the DATA but held up until survey is report is out: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2010/05/27/senate-armed-services-com_n_592782.html?ref=fb&src=sp#sb=980502,b=facebook

Ending DADT will undermine religious liberty: http://www.facebook.com/l.php?u=http%3A%2F%2Freligion.blogs.cnn.com%2F2010%2F06%2F01%2Fmy-take-ending-dont-ask-dont-tell-would-undermine-religious-liberty%2F&h=3fab6

Glenn Beck against DATA repeal:http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2010/09/17/ken-buck-homogeneous-military-dadt_n_721804.html?ref=fb&src=sp

Elderly gay couple separated and everything they owned auctioned off: http://www.bilerico.com/2010/04/sonoma_county_ca_separates_elderly_gay_couple_and.php  

Huckabee likens gay marriage to incest: http://search.yahoo.com/404handler?src=news&fr=404_news&ref=http%3A%2F%2Fwww.facebook.com%2Fl.php%3Fu%3Dhttp%253A%252F%252Fnews.yahoo.com%252Fs%252Fap%252F20100413%252Fap_on_el_pr%252Fus_huckabee_gay_marriage%26amp%3Bh%3D3fab6&url=http%3A%2F%2Fnews.yahoo.com%2Fs%2Fap%2F20100413%2Fap_on_el_pr%2Fus_huckabee_gay_marriage

DADT SURVEY a Gay Questionier: http://voices.washingtonpost.com/federal-eye/2010/07/a_pentagon_survey_sent_this.html

NYC: Gang members torture Gay police recruit:  http://www.cbsnews.com/8301-503544_162-20003698-503544.html 

 Gay couple found guilty and sentenced to 14 years in prison: http://www.ksby.com/news/malawi-gay-couple-found-guilty/

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News articles that deal with bulling, forced religion & rules, on captured audiences.

References to New Testament passages imbedded in US rifle scopes: http://www.usatoday.com/news/military/2010-01-19-Military-weapons_N.htm

Military forces soldiers to go to Christian worship: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/chris-rodda/us-soldiers-punished-for-_b_687051.html?ref=fb&src=sp

Jail prohibits any reading material except the Bible: http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-dyn/content/article/2010/10/06/AR2010100604933.html?hpid=sec-religion

Saturday, October 9, 2010

BULLYING A GROWING CONCERN

This topic is in the news a lot lately and such a tragic subject to. Something has to be done about it and soon... the Blogger's article is about what happened to him and what can be done to stop this atrocious behavior. The other articles are what I have compiled over the year.  There will be following blogs on other types of bulling that may not seem to be relevant but are none the less bulling. There is a lot to cover so I'll sign off and let you get to it.  Sleepy Sally Sandman
News articles that deal with bulling or outing gays & forced religion & rules on captured audiences. 

 

Yesterday a 13 year old boy in Texas shot himself in the head because he was bullied and tormented at school for being gay. This is the second teenage boy this week who has committed suicide because of this type of bullying.  I received this last night… (2 articles)

http://perezhilton.com/2010-09-28-Texas_teen_kills_himself_after_years_of_bullying

http://blogs.chron.com/momhouston/2010/04/texas_teen_commits_suicide_aft_1.html

One town in Ohio and 4 children’s suicides from bulling: http://news.yahoo.com/s/ap/us_bullying_one_town

Blogger: I was a bullied kid: http://www.danoah.com/2010/10/memoirs-of-bullied-kid.html

­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­­1. Mississippi schools sued for canceling prom over lesbian student: http://us.cnn.com/2010/LIVING/03/11/mississippi.prom.suit/index.html

2. I was sent to a fake Prom: http://www.advocate.com/News/Daily_News/2010/04/05/ACLU_Investigating_Fake_Prom/

3. Follow up on above: http://www.americanhumanist.org/news/details/2010-03-humanists-prepare-to-hold-lgbt-inclusive-prom-in-miss

4. Follow up: Bleckley school officials allowing gay prom date: http://www.macon.com/2010/03/23/1069261/bleckley-school-officials-allowing.html?storylink=addthis

Gay Jesus Play stopped because of receipt of vile messages: http://wbztv.com/watercooler/gay.jesus.Play.2.1596827.html